Thank you so much, Monica. The “fault” issue. It’s beyond tragic. I received one comment (I deleted it, because life is too short for this) that said this was clearly my fault because I went out to an expensive restaurant AND went to Mark’s room. Sad, really, to think there are women out there who still embrace this patently sexist line of reasoning. I will read your new piece. Brava to you for sharing these stories and adding your voice.