Absolutely. The dissonance arises when one of you believes the friendship is a friendship of the good and is loathe to admit or acknowledge that it is, in fact, a friendship of utility (or even pleasure). I have recently had to acknowledge that with several people I (mistakenly) believed would be in my life forever. It doesn’t make them villains (or me a saint!); it just is what it is.

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